Ghosts!

It is taught to young men that their physical urges is crude and silly, and that women are just doing a favor to sleep with them.

There’s another societal factor going on, that I call the “doofus dad” syndrome. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.

This leads to the perception that women are “better,” and thus, their time is more valuable than yours.

You will feel obligated to give a woman a LOT OF TIME if your time is not so valuable.

But here’s the thing – you won’t be present for most of that time, if you are giving a woman too much time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.

I just realize this after analyzing lots of dates I went on women.

After that I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but with my FULL ATTENTION.

This makes our time better, and aside from that it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women obsess more.

Now my women can’t get enough of me – in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”

Women can’t be pulled to what they already have. You see, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me.

I don’t recommend playing games with girls and you pretend to be busy or whatever. In reality, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.

Just be real with her – don’t spend more time that you want. no need of games.

Focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women. Be a man on the go.

Now in a short amount of time it requires that you are able to meet a lot of women, which I’ll have to cover in another newsletter.

It’s not good to see that men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” girls, and then they are left out ALONE.

Women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow take with you when you die. Think about that.

You can’t “keep” a woman by investing all your time with her.

Another point that I want to give – when you start being honest about how much time you’re going to give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.

It’s either a girl will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.

If you are following your true ways, it will usually from the social norm.

If you are in the habit of adopting the values that others try to impose onto you, you will probably experience some tension, guilt, discomfort, even loneliness at first.

That is why I discover and develop the Attraction Code. You can learn about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ deep within.

And no, we don’t intend to impose our goals to you. I think you are capable enough to handle it to yourself, given the proper guidance.

Vin